Nobody Understands
2004-11-16 - 12:26 a.m.
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I think I had a nervous breakdown thursday before I had my morning coffee.
Incredibly horrible dreams all night. I was confronted with every anxiety I have and have ever had. Every failure. Every loss.
On some level, I think I was confronted with every anxiety I ever will have, also. I remember distinctly the thought of abandoning my body, just leaving it, or rather, having someone tell me to do that. And feeling no attatchment to it whatsoever. I felt my life was built entirely on deception and got in touch with a deep, virulent vein of self loathing. An aggressive self loathing. I awoke unsure of what day it was. I didnt know what I was supposed to do, where I was supposed to go to work. Nothing.
I thought about the dream and was nearly overcome. I felt as though if I were back into it, I would vomit until I passed out.
Got up, went to the bathroom, and saw myself in the mirror. Was immediately overtaken by the self-loathing. Like, if you saw someone you most hated, hitler, say, and immediately and aggressively wanted to kill them, that was how I felt. It wasnt a doloros self-pitying kind of self loathing, but an active self-hatred divorced of any sense of self. Then I nearly lost my shit again, and felt as though I would vomit until I passed out.
I went through the motions, almost being overcome three more times at work. I felt like begging a co-worker who was going to class to stay with me, that no, not everything was all right. But I could not explain why everything was not all right.
Thankfully, on this day, I sit at a desk and no one really bothers me, and I have little to do while she's at class. I cover the front desk for three hours until she gets back, and I go to my regular job. I suppose I should be indignant about it, but I really could care less. My life will not change one iota because of this, nor will my career, so...so what.
I sat amd stared out the window at life going by, much as I used to do as a grade school kid, until I got it together enough to go and get coffee. And with the coffee came the miracle of healing. Like a magic salve it put my soul back together in some coherent sense, I got distance from the horrible feelings, the bad memories, and kept going through the motions. I had come completely unglued and put myself back together again with the wonder of juan valdez.
And no one had noticed. Not even remotely.
I thought about it, and tried to compare it to doing acid, but not really succeeding. I think I went through a titanic number of nervous breakdowns in the old acid eating days. Comparing the symptoms of LSD abuse, tripping, to the patients I counseled and the exact defininition of a nervous breakdown, it seems pretty likely. I likened LSD to a personality eraser. It would throw all the pieces of the puzzle into the air and change the makeup. I stopped taking it because I liked whom I had become on some levels. I stopped taking it for a lot of reasons.
So I called Audrey. How was your day, etc.
"How's your day?" she asked.
"I think I had a nervous breakdown this morning." I said.
"You sound fine." she said. And nothing more was said.
I wrote a friend about it. She had nothing to say. 'I'm taking today off.' she said.
Later on, in a bid for understanding, I even wrote an ex-girlfriend. Didnt get any answer.
Fuckin' women.
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